By Leo Babauta
The Monk Who Sold His
Ferrari: A Fable About Fulfilling Your Dreams & Reaching Your Destiny
, by Robin
Sharma, is an interesting book — as the subtitle suggests, it’s a fable, and
it’s one that will certainly make you give some thought to your life, your
goals, your dreams and how your daily habits help you reach those dreams.

I highly enjoy the discussion of a
number of concepts in this book. The author is a leadership expert and author,
and he fills the book with a combination of life strategies. Many of these are
useful, but whether they work in combination is the real question.
The Fable
The book takes the form of a fable
about Julian Mantle, a high-profile attorney with a crazy schedule and a set of
priorities that centre around money, power and prestige. As such, Mantle
represents the values of our society. The story is told from the perspective of
one of his associates, who admires Mantle’s great success and aspires to be
like him.
But when Mantle has a heart attack, he
drops out of the game and disappears. He sells all his possessions and goes to
India to seek a more meaningful existence. When he comes back, he’s a changed
man. Really, it’s as if he is a completely different person. He has learned
from some mythical Himalayan gurus who give him mystical and yet practical
advice, which he shares with his former associate.
The Concepts
The core of the book is the Seven
Virtues of Enlightened Learning, which Mantle reveals one by one. Although the
book presents them as actual Virtues learned from Himalayan gurus, it is
important to remember as you read that these are made up by the author —
actually, he pulled them from other sources and put them together:
i.
Master
your mind
ii.
Follow
your purpose
iii.
Practice
kaizen
iv.
Live
with discipline
v.
Respect
your time
vi.
Selflessly
serve others
vii.
Embrace
the present
Each of these Virtues is discussed in detail
in separate chapters, each of them with a number of concepts and habits to
develop. Most of them are very inspiring and potentially very useful. After
reading the book, I incorporated several of them into my life, including the
ones that involve positive thinking, visualizing goals and more. Again, these
are not new concepts, and have been discussed in many other books, but the book
presents a great collection of useful concepts that you might want to try out.
The Problem
After reading the book, I began to
outline each of the Seven Virtues, because I was confused about all the action
steps the book recommends taking. The truth is, each of the Seven Virtues
encompasses a bunch of daily habits, and incorporating all of them into your
life would be cumbersome. And some of them seem to me to be conflicting.
As an example of the large number of
habits in every virtue, here are the ones I have listed for the first virtue;
Master your mind:
Habit: Find positive in every
circumstance; don’t judge events as “good” or “bad”, but experience them,
celebrate them and learn from them.
Habit: 10 minutes of reflection on your
day, and how to improve your next day.
Habit: Opposition thinking – take every
negative thought that comes into your mind and turn it into a positive one.
First, be aware of your thoughts. Second, appreciate that as easily as negative
thoughts enter, they can be replaced with positive ones. So think of the
opposite of the negative ones. Instead of being gloomy, concentrate on being
happy and energetic.
Habit: Secret of the lake. Take a few
deep breaths and relax. Then envision your dreams becoming a reality. Picture
vivid images of what you want to become. Then they will become reality.
And that’s just with the first virtue.
Each one has a number of habits to develop, and they’re not listed out like
I’ve done here. If you tried to incorporate all of the habits in the book, your
day would be very busy indeed. Also, I would recommend only trying to adopt one
at a time — more than that, and your habit change will be hard to sustain.
Conclusion
Although I can’t give The Monk Who
Sold His Ferrari
I give this book a buy
recommendation for anyone who is interested in incorporating routines and
habits that can transform their lives, help them achieve their dreams, calm
them and make them happier. Yes, it’s a jumble of too many ideas, but you can
pick and choose, and the ideas contained within are potentially very powerful.
Plus, it’s a fun and easy read.
If you’re interested, check it out here: The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari: A Fable About Fulfilling Your Dreams & Reaching Your Destiny. Or send a mail to seunolorunmaye@yahoo.com and i promise to mail you the book.
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